Anger is an emotion characterized. Anger can be a good thing. It can help to give you a way to express negative feelings,
for example, or motivate you to find solutions to problems.
It’s never fun to be on the receiving end of someone else’s anger. especially when it gets to an excessive point. If you can calm, you can diffuse this situation.
To be clear, these ” Comebacks” are not about finding creative ways to tell someone off.
When someone is very angry, sometimes the best thing you can do is just listen.Even though your instinct may be to offer solutions, or fight fire with fire, doing so can agitate the situation further. Angry people want to be heard ( that’s way they get so loud)
” I hear what you are saying”
Showing that you are a listening ear, and that you will not impose judgement, will help them feel more at ease and be more comfortable about opening up.
Often wen people are angry, they don’t actually express the deeper problem they are facing. They may have not even figured out what it is yet. By showing that you are receptive, you can expose the problem and then come to a solution to gether.
“I don’t agree, But I Understand”
Even if you think that what they are saying is bonkers, it is important to always understand each other’s points of view if we don’t there won’t be opportunities for compromise.
“I Think You need some space”
Inviting the angry person to be by herself will not only release you from the situation, but it will also give them time to cool down and reflect on what was said.
” When you’ve cooled down, i’m here to talk”
Before making your exit, remind him that you are calm and are willing to hear them out.